That right there just shows you how women never forget anything. They just file it away for when they need it. My ex and I were in therapy after 21 years and she brought up shit from our wedding night that we had NEVER discussed that apparently had bothered her for 21 freaking years! They save that shit till they need it!
I had a girlfriend who couldn't remember what happened last week but could bring up incidents that had happened years before. And of course with every retelling I was always the bad guy.
Sounds familiar. I went to counseling with my ex wife and after a while she said”I don’t know why I’m here it’s all his fault. Needless to say it didn’t go well.....yet she was surprised when I left.
I'm not sure if it is the same but on "our" first time we yapped for an hour and when it was done the counselor told me I could go and asked that my wife come back next week. That did NOT go over well, like a turd in a punch bowl. She was pissed and somehow it was my damn fault.
