Look scarecrow, I get it. LaSalle asked what his wife should do. I focused on the child and the legal aspect to give my best reply. If this was a thread about the father being useless as a parent, my replies would have sounded more like yours. It's much easier to call for illegal activity but how does that help? The courts don't always do a good job but they are there for a reason. I already agreed with bhelm that an id litem was the best choice to start. What do you suggest other than capital murder or kidnapping?