Welcome dachsie. The few times I visited TOs, I always thought you were the former La Girl in Texas, here. Regardless, I did some digging and saw what your problem there is. Let me preface by saying you board demeanor there seemed very pleasant. Your positive rep indicates as much. Though positive rep isn't necessarily ALWAYS a true reflection (see shane), in your case, it was. I read a lot of your posts, you're a good poster. Your problem was the board bitch and you swapped some neg rep on an innocent joke you made about a team doctor, and she's a big pussy when it comes to taking a hit. Obviously very low self-esteem. I suspect she has some daddy issues. They make for a good round or two in the sack but you gotta kick em to the curb after that- no exceptions. They're the fatal attraction types. I suspect, as she was here, she is a lot to do with any drama there, not Grad, so much. CO got the ban hammer, sure, but he would've gotten it here too if we didn't like him so much when he remembers to take his meds.
At first I wondered what the hell CO could have done to get banned over there. Now that I have seen his Mr. Hyde side I don't.