If God exists, he is within you, grasshoppa. He is your own soul and you cannot hold him in any higher esteem. He is #0. Therefore your family is always #1.
I thought if God existed we wouldn't know what god does or what god would want if anything? At any rate isn't 0 before 1
We don't, so we use concepts to express what could be. So far before it that it greatly resembles nothing.