I embarked on the ultimate insanity in my thirties: wife, children, mortgage, responsibilities and little sleep between busting my ass to make money and giving my wife a break from the kids at night, but I made it in no small part thanks to a little stent in my heart and a lot of exercise on a daily basis --- I'm sane again and fascinated by women I'm meeting in their thirties --- torn between striving to be responsible adults and being playful. Some start to have a bitterness, but laced with some rather sweet spots.