I am the last one to come on here and deny it. I guess it is probably because I am lazy or maybe just have too much to do.
It's what is great about America. One can be lazy, politically apathetic, not-terribly-smart, and completely self-indulgent and still make a good living, fear no war, leave your doors unlocked, and be happier than 90% of the human race.
You're only the 4th but I wouldn't really consider that a denial. You and Mobius both put yourselves down in a way so I have no worries about you... It's the infallible I worry about.
You and Dolezal have so much in common it's unbelievable. It's like the two of you were separated at birth. If you and your current wife ever split you should look her up.
Kinda agree with Red on this one. I have had tremendous opportunities, few garnered on my own, and have consistently made a series of terrible personal/financial/health/career decisions, and still, too many, I would appear to be living the good life. Only in America!
she is no idiot, they say her work is impeccable, hell if she wants to be black, I say let her. Who are we to say she isnt if she feels that way. Its not a sex change.