The more it's not okay, the more it is. Laughter can be very therapeutic. On that note, being forced to have sex is not the worst thing in my book. I'd much prefer someone forcing me to screw than making me eat a piece of dog shit, for example.
I thought we were talking hetero stuff. You know, boy-girl?? You may be too close to California. The sad truth is, even though I was obviously being my usual ass-self, it is hard for men to imagine just how bad it must be to experience what women feel when they are subject to such unfortunate experiences.