Archie never had to ask for a beer. He would come through the door and Edith would literally run from the kitchen with that beer. She knew her place.
A little conflation here. Simply because it takes a certain amount of mental toughness, people get there in different ways and a few of them have a screw loose. There are "normal" men who have issues when their service is concluded but there are some who went in virtually as sociopaths. They become open to the deviancy described earlier. That type of behavior has nothing to do with the training they received. That's what I thought. It is not a fact. Not only do I understand it far more than you've given me credit for, but I understand it even more than you do.
Fucking a SEAL doesn't make you an expert any more than Monica Lewinsky fucking Bill made her know what it's like to be a President. Sure you do, suga, about as much as you know what it's like to piss through a penis.