yeah its easy to judge from the sidelines. some put themselves out there. you are two posts in already retracting. gotta be ready to take some, cochise, esp if you give some.
One thing I pride myself on is the ability to make an adjustment in the face of sound reasoning. It's not a retraction it's an adjustment. Being able to look at yourself and make an honest assessment escapes most people. I however have been married for 19 years so I'm well aware how often I'm incorrect.
